Why is it so hard for African American woman to find an African American man that does not let his ego get in the way of his relationship. I do think most of them do not remember that they were raised by a single woman. Which means she ran the house and showed his sister how to run their homes. I think men do not know how to balance the term "where he is weak...she is strong. This goes to the majority of men that have not been shown how to be a man in this society. First and foremost you are human. Something you and women have in common.